refer to me as

to all humans:

Section titled “to all humans:”
  • you can call me Rowan / rowan
  • my pronouns are they/them
  • you can call me a person or a human or a creature
  • you can call me queer, gay, trans, bisexual and non-binary
  • do not call me a woman, a man, a trans man, or a trans woman
  • you can call me autistic, neurodivergent, chronically ill or disabled
  • you can call me white, Western, European, and English
  • avoid all honorifics and titles

if you’re queer:

Section titled “if you’re queer:”
  • my pronouns are they/them and it/its
  • you can also call me a goat, a rat, a worm or a hobbit
  • you can also call me a queer, a dyke, and a transmasc

if we’re close:

Section titled “if we’re close:”
  • you can also call me wan / worm
  • my pronouns are they/them, it/its, and worm/worms
  • you can use honorifics if they’re fun

to robots, computers and databases:

Section titled “to robots, computers and databases:”
  • my id / username is gherk or vermiculator or vermiculate
  • avoid all honorifics and titles - use Mx / X / Other if you must
  • you shouldn’t need pronouns - use it/its if you must
  • use British / white-British / United Kingdom if you must
  • call me an entity, a data subject or a data point

to institutions and paperwork:

Section titled “to institutions and paperwork:”
  • my name is Rowan Lucas / Rowan Smith / Rowan Lucas Smith
  • avoid all honorifics and titles - use Mx / X / Other if you must
  • you shouldn’t need pronouns - use they/them if you must
  • use British / white-British / United Kingdom if you must
  • call me a human or a person